I got engaged to Gia about 4 years ago. Right after that we both visited my parents in New Jersey to tell them the good news. We were already starting to plan the wedding and
were totally excited by it. Then all of our plans were abruptly halted.
My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. As you can imagine, I no longer felt excited about my wedding, my ceremony or having any sort of celebration. My mom was sick and all I wanted was for her to get better. It was rough.
At the same time, Gia didn’t want to wait to get married. So we decided that it was best to simply go to City Hall to make it official.
But it never felt right. Without a ceremony and without our family and friends with us, our marriage never felt official in our hearts. So when my mom got better, we decided that it was time to plan a real wedding.
In my mind, I thought it was going to be just an awesome, touching and beautiful party. I thought I was doing it more for Gia than for me. Things wouldn’t really be different after our wedding. I was wrong.
The ceremony was magical. As we were encircled by our closest family and friends, I felt my whole community lifting me up to be a better man, a better husband, and a better human. It wasn’t just for Gia, this was for me. And I have been forever changed. My level of commitment to myself is more consistent. My level of commitment to Gia is as solid as I can imagine.
I know that commitment is the backbone of success. And everyday I am with Gia, my commitment to her is growing and my relating to her is getting richer, better and more profound.
Why I am sharing this with you? Yes, I want you to know me better. I also know that in order for you to create the life you want and the business you want, it is your level of commitment that needs to grow and deepen first and foremost. What if there were no backdoor to slip out through in your business success journey?
Your life would forever be transformed. You would be a different being. You would learn to love in a completely different way. I love you and want this for you as much as I want anything
in my life.